不抱怨的世界

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It was a book I read when I was in high school. I don't really remember the detailed content of this book. But I still remember the book name.

This book has shaped me in some ways. Maybe mainly the book title.

What I have hold in my guidlines after I have known the book include at the following several points.

• Complaining usually brings no preferred results
  • Even if the Complaining can result in some preferred results, the cost is usually more expensive
• Complaining can easily result in even more unpleasant results
• Complaining is typically useless but just takes some of your peace and patience
• Complaining usually cannot solve the real problem
• Turning complaining into workaround actions is more benefitial
• I do not complain does not mean I am satisfied
  • I just mean I have not expressed my opinion

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抱怨是最消耗能量的无益举动。
有时候，我们的抱怨不仅会针对人、也会针对不同的生活情境，表示我们的不满。而且如果找不到人倾听我们的抱怨，我们会在脑海里抱怨给自己听。
《不抱怨的世界》作者提出的神奇“不抱怨”运动，来的恰是时候，它正是我们现代人最需要的。
我们可以这样看：天下只有三种事：我的事，他的事，老天的事。
抱怨自己的人，应该试着学习接纳自己；抱怨他人的人，应该试着把抱怨转成请求；抱怨老天的人，请试着用祈祷的方式来诉求你的愿望。
这样一来，你的生活会有想象不到的大转变，你的人生也会更加地美好、圆满。